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Gay and play hockey?

You're welcome at the University of Connecticut.

That is the message the school's men's hockey team is sending out in two videos for a program called You Can Play.

The goal of the international initiative launched in March is to work to end homophobia in hockey.

"We thought it was a great idea to show the community how we feel about homosexuality in sports, and let people know that anyone can play on our team," said UConn captain Sean Ambrosie.

The public service videos are posted on YouTube and the UConn website, and are scheduled to be featured in the coming days on the You Can Play site.

In them, the players pledge to support "any teammate, gay or straight, that can help us win games."

The program was created by Patrick Burke, a scout for the Philadelphia Flyers and son ofToronto Maple Leafs general manager Brian Burke. It was launched in memory of Patrick's brother, Brendan, who died in a car accident in 2010. Brendan made headlines when he came out in November 2009 while serving as the manager of Miami of Ohio's college hockey team.

So far about 100 athletes, including 50 from the NHL, have signed on to pledge they would play with gay or transgender athletes, Patrick Burke said. But UConn is one of just eight teams that have joined as a group.

"When a whole team stands up to do something like this, that's very important," Patrick Burke said. "For a young gay hockey player, who is looking for a place to play hockey, he knows that UConn is an option, that he will be safe at UConn, that he will be accepted at UConn."

Connecticut coach Bruce Marshall said the videos were not done to be "a nice beacon for the university." He said it was the players' idea, and he told them not to do it unless they were ready to stand behind their words and deal with any negative fallout.

Peter Wolfgang, president of the conservative Family Institute of Connecticut Action, said he has no problem with the team participating in an anti-bullying campaign, but he is concerned about the references to "homophobia" in the video.

"It's a very loaded political term," he said. "If we're going to be against bullying, then we ought to be against all forms of bullying and not just the kind that get us a pat on the back from politically correct elites. I would hope that people that have traditional beliefs, traditional faiths that they would not be bullied for holding views about morality or the definition of marriage."

Ambrosie said the team expects to get some heckling about their stance, but is prepared to deal with that. He said if they become known as "the team that made the gay video," they are more than happy to be that.

"It's not going to bother us at all," he said. "We did this because we want to show our support, and other people's opinions aren't going to have any effect on us."

Marshall and Ambrosie said they don't know if anyone currently on the team is gay and don't really care.

"If there was to be (a gay member of the team) down the road, or there is today, then I feel they are a hell of a lot better team than other teams that don't want to accept that," Marshall said. "I give them a lot of credit for standing up. You're not seeing a thousand of these (videos) around. That, I think, shows that they have some strength in who they are as individuals."

In the videos, the UConn players are pledging not only to support gay athletes, but transgender ones as well. The NCAA recently released a policy that will allow a female to male transgender person who has received a medical exception for treatment with testosterone to compete on any men's team.

Goalie Garrett Bartus said dealing with a transgender athlete might be "a little shocking" at first, but he believes that person would be welcome at Connecticut. He said players don't have to agree with everything about a player's life to be their teammate.

"If they can play and help us win, I'm sure we'd get behind him," he said. "Nobody should be discriminated against. That's really the whole point of this -- if you can play, you can play."


Copyright 2012 by The Associated Press 

 
 

Laverne Cox True Transgender Stories

To reinforce the sometimes overlooked fact that there are black people in the LGBTQ community, and also that there are LGBTQ people in the black community, the blogpage, I’m From Driftwood’s very first Community Spotlight will feature stories from the black community. They are also making a commitment to feature more stories of all people of color and different ethnicities beyond this week. 

Laverne is an actress and a transgender woman whose story takes us from her childhood experiences of being bullied, to the transphobia she experiences as an adult, and the acceptance she finally receives from her mother.  Watch Laverne's story below and read more about Laverne here.    
 
 
 
 

Welcoming Schools

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Trailer for the new Welcoming Schools (www.welcomingschools.org) professional development film for educators and parents. Children talk about when they first heard about gay and lesbian people; language they hear from family, teachers and friends; and how teachers can create a safe school climate. Produced by the Human Rights Campaign Foundation. (Film length: 13 minutes) 

 
 

Episode 18 of In The Moment - I thought I'd Be Alone Forever

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In the 18th episode, Carlos and Ricky's mentee gets beat up for being gay, Billy and Kyle's relationship is on the edge when one decides to cheat.  Shawn and Brandon also take a break with their relationship over what happened with Edgar.  To find out what happens watch the episode below!

IN THE MOMENT is an online web series that follows the lives of a group of gay guys living in the same apartment complex in West Hollywood, California. Like most of us, they're faced with a huge range of decisions about sex, and the decisions they make impact their lives and the lives of people around them. IN THE MOMENT is also about starting an open, honest conversation among gay guys in the Los Angeles area about these types of decisions.

IN THE MOMENT starts with an authentic, sexy and sometimes humorous web soap opera that explores the full range of factors that come into play in sexual decision making among young gay men. Issues like self-esteem, dating, relationships, age, body image, addiction and others are addressed as key factors in the lives of the characters. The episodes are broken into 3-5 minute “webisodes”, which are a starting-place for discussion.

Check out the 18th webisode below!

 
 

A Day in The Life of LGBTQ Teens from Answer, Sex Ed Honestly

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Teens who are lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender or questioning face many challenges, especially in schools. Will you stand up for LGBTQ students who are not getting the support they need to become healthy adults?

Answer's third online workshop—LGBTQ Issues in Schools—is designed for middle and high school health professionals and will increase awareness of LGBTQ issues by providing strategies and resources for making schools more inclusive.

Learn more about Answer's online LGBTQ workshop and sign up at Answer.rutgers.edu/page/lgbtqissues 

 
 

You Can Play Campaign Launch Includes 12 NHL Stars

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Over the weekend, the You Can Play project launched a truly inspiring campaign for LGBT inclusion in the world of sports.   

This first PSA made its debut on Sunday during the first intermission of the NBC Sports broadcast of the New York Rangers vs. Boston Bruins game, and features campaign founders Patrick Burke (Scout for the Philadelphia Flyers), Brian Burke (Genral Manager of the Toronto Maple Leafs) as well as players Rick Nash (Columbus Blue Jackets), Duncan Keith (Chicago Blackhawks), Brian Boyle (New York Rangers), Matt Moulson (New York Islanders), Joffrey Lupul (Toronto Maple Leafs), Claude Giroux (Philadelphia Flyers), Daniel Alfredsson (Ottawa Senators), Scott Hartnell (Philadelphia Flyers), Corey Perry (Anaheim Ducks), Andy Greene (New Jersey Devils), Dion Phaneuf (Toronto Maple Leafs) and Henrik Lundqvist (New York Rangers). 
Millions of young people across the continent, of all ages and skill levels, play some form of organized sports. This campaign tells those young people – through the voices of the athletes they idolize – that our rinks, courts, fields, and gyms should be safe and inclusive spaces for the LGBT community.  

You Can Play tells young people to value sportsmanship, teamwork, and respect for all.

Watch the PSA below!

 
 

BULLY Official Trailer In Select Theaters March 30th

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This year, over 13 million American kids will be bullied, making it the most common form of violence young people in the U.S. experience. Directed by Sundance- and Emmy-award winning filmmaker, Lee Hirsch, Bully is a beautifully cinematic, character-driven documentary—at its heart are those with the most at stake and whose stories each represent a different facet of this bullying crisis. 

Following five kids and families over the course of a school year, the film confronts bullying’s most tragic outcomes, including the stories of two families who’ve lost children to suicide and a mother who waits to learn the fate of her 14 –year-old daughter, incarcerated after bringing a gun on her school bus. With rare access to the Sioux City Community School District, the film also gives an intimate glimpse into school busses, classrooms, cafeterias and even principles offices, offering insight into the often-cruel world of children, as teachers, administrators and parents struggle to find answers.

While the stories examine the dire consequences of bullying, they also give testimony to the courage and strength of the victims of bullying and seek to inspire real changes in the way we deal with bullying as parents, teachers, children, and in society as a whole. Through the power of these stories, Bully aims to be a catalyst for change and to turn the tide on an epidemic of violence that has touched every community in the United States—and far beyond.  Watch the trailer below.

 
 

Sugar Baby Love

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AIDES is the Leading French HIV/AIDS and viral hepatitis Non Governmental Organization.  They created this video that promotes safe sex so you can live long enough to find the right one.  Watch the video below!

Context Although the gay community has been especially aware that prevention is needed since the start of the Aids epidemic, there has been a revival of unprotected practices in the last years. Today, homosexuals represent almost one quarter of newly diagnosed cases and more than 4 discover they are HIV positive each day.
Objective Day after day, in the field, AIDES militants note it is difficult for gays to protect themselves optimally. Aware of the need to send more messages addressing them, AIDES has decided to produce a new consciousness raising ad with the TBWA\PARIS agency. The film follows the line of "Baby, baby", produced in 2005 by Wilfrid Brimo (Wanda) to promote the image of condom use for a fully satisfying sexuality. This success naturally inspired this commercial.
Project Also produced as a video to the rhythm of the "Sugar Baby Love" track by the "The Rubbet’s" band, the film humoristically relates the love life of a young boy, and then young man, who after discovering his homosexuality lives his sexual identity, although victim of homophobic attacks. We follow him as years go by, in search of true love. Meanwhile, he protects himself during encounters by using a condom. The final message is still: "Live long enough to find the one!" This campaign plays on codes which are specific to the homosexual community, up to the point of caricature, in order to promote the use of condom. But it also aims at denouncing the discrimination gay people living in accordance to their sexual orientation have to go through. Recent attacks are a terrible reminder of this.  This video has been awarded a Silver Lion prize at the International Advertising Festival of Cannes – June 2006. 

 
 

Rise Against - Make It Stop

Check out Rise Against and the It Gets Better Project as they team up to tackle bullying in the new music video for “Make It Stop (September's Children)". 
Behind the scenes of Rise Against making the video for "Make It Stop (September's Children)".
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